You know nothing about men. I've been happily married for ten years. I respect my wife. I even clean the house and cook her dinner! Are you shocked? She gets a foot bath and massage almost every day because her feet hurt from work. In fact, I probaly do more housework than she does. I don't know about the wackaloos, you ladies date, but I know of no men like this. Both my sisters have also been married for many years to great guys. Perhaps you need to make better selections. There are guys out there that actually care.