I live in a monogamous relationship with my wife. We share things equally. She leads more than I do. I have no desire to cheat on her. Nor would I. I do not OWN her and she does not OWN me. She is my partner. There is no "patriarchal" construct here.

We treat each other with the respect we both deserve. We agreed to marry each other and spend our life together. I follow no religion of the "patriarchy." I could care less about imaginary sky gods.

People are free to love how they want and who they want. Mine is monogamous.